phallusy

The fragile nature of female sexuality

Why do girls force their blistered feet into high heels, put on expensive makeup (seriously.. that stuff is expensive!) and eat salad instead of a hamburger? Is being ‘attractive’ really that important. By my estimation, it seems like girls (in general) feel the need to be physically attractive. 

Is looking your best a ‘sexiness contest’ with other women? 

Do girls get dressed up to make the men look at them?

Maybe it just feels good to be sexy.

Is it cultural?.. little girls are told that they have to ‘look pretty’.

And finally, perhaps these beauty routines are how girls confirm their sexuality. Maybe the media and other social forces set girls up in a losing battle (a continuous cycle) of needing to be reminded that they are attractive. I hope this isn’t true. There should be other ways to feel good about yourself. Is this a bad thing? Who’s fault is all this?

DTF

I’ve been watching too much Jersey Shore lately.

DTF = down to fuck

• the girl that is constantly looking around the room
• the girl that spends a lot of time playing with (fixing) her hair
• the girl with ‘that look’ in her eye..

What’s your favourite DTF sign?

Letting her know you have options

Being in a relationship with an attractive girl is great. However.. Its easy to start thinking ‘wow I’ve made it.. I’ve finally got the girl I’ve been lusting after’. Don’t get complacent. Don’t be the (American) Football player who gets tackled on the 5 yard line because he stopped running before getting to the endzone. If you ‘take your foot off the gas’.. you’re gonna get tackled by the guy that kept running. Having a hot girlfriend is hard work.

You have to continually make it clear that you are an attractive man that can get other girls. Fortunately, being in a relationship with a hottie actually creates plenty of opportunities to show your ‘sexworthiness’. You’ll find that other girls treat you differently when they know you have a hot girlfriend. They see you with a hottie and start to wonder what you’re all about. Use these situations. Stay within the limits of being respectful to your girlfriend and ‘engage’ the girls you meet.

Trust me.. your girlfriend loves (needs) to know that other girls like you. It confirms her feelings for you and justifies her relationship with you.